Fleshlight: The Toy For Men Who Want Something New

When it comes to male sex toys there are many different options available. The industry is growing and what was once thought of as a couple or female playground is now becoming filed with numerous toys for men as well. From prostate massagers to male vibrators, there are many different choices available. The most popular is the Fleshlight toy. This male masturbator is realistic, fun and discreet making it a top choice for men looking to create their own personal playtime when a lady is out of reach.

What Does It Involve?

The Fleshlight is a synthetic toy that resembles the vagina of a woman. The folds and features that make a woman’s vagina beautiful and unique are recreated at the top of this amazing little toy. It also has a realistic twist: a hole for the vagina. It is possible that the penis can penetrate this region in much the same way as an actual vagina. While there may be some difference in feeling from an actual vagina, the goal is still there to stimulate the sexual experience a man has with a female successfully. The hollow tube of this toy makes it easy to use and can easily be held in your hand while penetrating the vaginal opening with the penis.

Is There Variety?

A vagina is a vagina so there is not much diversity in a toy that replicates it, right? Wrong! Men will find that there are ways that this toy is different in both construction and style. The Fleshlight can be found in many different colors and sizes. There are also a variety of designs and sizes of the vaginal tube that men can choose from to meet his personal needs. Some sex toy companies have even go in so far as to design these toys to mimic a famous adult star’s vagina. They are crafted to look and feel like the real thing and are just as unique and diverse as women themselves. Therefore, a man can literally fill up a closet, drawer or secret shoe box with a variety of different toys to make themselves happy and give their hand a rest.

Who Is It For?

Of course, a male sex toy is designed for use by men. But single men aren’t the only ones that can benefit from adding a little extra spice in sole play in the bedroom. The Fleshlight is great for men in long distance relationships, single men and even couples who want to experience a little bit of threesome play without actually bringing in another woman quite yet. It can serve the void of sexual intercourse without requiring a partner of the opposite sex. With male masturbation rates being extremely high, this fleshy, human-like toy is a perfect way to bring in new experiences to an old practice regardless of whether or not a woman is involved.

Because of the versatility and the ability to use this masturbator in many different ways, it is no wonder that the Fleshlight remains such a popular toy in the sex toy market. With so many women in the adult industry, too, there is literally a world of possibility for new additions to this collection.

Putting the Spotlight on Male Sex Toys… For Once

Women’s sex toys have gotten tons of exposure in the retail world. Now that the demand for male sex toys as increased, you can walk into any specialty store that sells sex toys and find an entire wall dedicated to toys just for men. Fleshlight has dominated this industry for men and continues to do so. The products they make are top notch and are perfect for any man looking for solo play or a way to spice up the bedroom. Ladies, watch out! Men’s toys are officially slowly taking over and Fleshlight is leading the cavalry!

What Products Do Adult Stars Use For Natural Enhancements For Men?

No matter how puritans try, the word “sex” can not just be avoided. Both men and women always want to be sexual animals. The biggest attack on a man’s ego is to say that he is sexually weak and that is the reason why sexual enhancement products are so popular.

From time immemorial, sexual prowess is a measure of a man’s masculinity and in certain communities, a status symbol. So why do people frown on anything that has the word “sex” in it? What a double standard. After all, every single man or woman is born out of sexual intercourse although some may argue that with modern medicine, children can be born without an intercourse through artificial insemination and by the test tube process. Then again the sperm and ovum which participate in those processes are connected to sex. Moreover those processes have the “artificial” thing in it and so are not natural.

Coming back to the topic of this article, we have seen an explosion of herbal male enhancement pills in all their different forms and various target aims. No wonder Virilix is one of them.

Take a normal sexually ripe man for instance. The moment he watches any porn movie where the stars perform all those seemingly unreachable feats, right at the back of his mind, he wishes he was one of them. Why do they perform so well? How can I perform sexually like an adult movie star? What gives them so much stamina? These are all questions he asks himself. Isn’t that so?

While making some researches on herbal male enhancement pills, believe it or not, there are many more searches related to porn stars sexual prowess than any other. Searches like What do porno stars use to enhance this or that? Or, what do they use for their male organ to be so big and so on and so forth. The intriguing thing is the fact that about 30% of those searches are associated with the names of big stars in the adult industry. This means only one thing. Many many men would like to associate themselves with these adult stars and even imitate them.

In order to be sure, I monitored a website where a video was posted. It is a video clip where a well known adult star declared that he uses a particular male enhancement product in order to be up to the task that his profession demands. Traffic to the website with the video clip sky rocketed.

This is an indication that there are so many men out there who either openly or secretly wish they would be able to acquire that same sexual energy with which the stars accomplish their duties.

No matter the reasons behind a man’s quest for sexual improvement, puritans should let go because the more you forbid anything, the more people will go for it. This attitude is in human nature as a philosopher once said. The forbidden fruit is always the sweetest.

A Trainee’s Guide to Fleshlight Adult Toys

On the surface of it, Fleshlight adult toys seem pretty simple – an extension of your hand that feels a little more like realistic sex, but not quite as big, bulky and hard to hide as a blow-up doll! However, there’s a wealth of new discoveries to be made inside those little tubes of specially formulated silicone… if you’ve recently purchased a Fleshlight adult toy or are thinking about it, here’s everything you’ll need to know about the Fleshlight.

Buying a Fleshlight Adult Toy

Many handheld pussy/anal sex simulators are called Fleshlights, although ‘Fleshlight’ is actually a particular brand. If you’re looking to buy one of these toys, have a browse through the men’s adult toy section generally, don’t just search by the name.

Look for toys made of Cyberskin or ‘realistic feel’ silicone – there is an amazing difference between these and standard old silicone!

You’ll also notice that some are made in a flashlight style, while others have a flat base to help you ‘mount’ the toy to a surface for hands-free operation (“Hey look, no hands!”). The mountable ones can cost a little more, but you can get the same effect from a handheld one by jamming it between your mattress and base, or between two couch cushions.

Prepping and Using Your Fleshlight Adult Toy

The proper prep can make a big different to how your Fleshlight adult toy feels. Here’s the usual MO:

Fill the sink full of warm-hot water
Remove the insert from the casing and sit it in the sink for 5 minutes
Repeat if you like, or for thicker inserts
DON’T use the microwave or boiling water
Pop some wipes nearby to help with the cleanup – you’ll want to get the lube off your hands to get a good grip on your adult toy
Slather the inside with water-based lube only; silicone-based lube will react with the adult toy and melt it.

Once you’re ready to go, try some different ideas like:

Using it as an extension of your hand as you’d normally masturbate
Jamming the Fleshlight between your mattress and the bed base for doggie-style simulation
Alternatively, push it down between your couch cushions to hold it in place.
Popping your adult toy into a shoe for unusual angles
Simply hold it on a countertop or the side of a couch

Cleaning Fleshlights

This takes a while – however, it is essential that this type of toy is cleaned properly, because the closed environment, warmth and wetness make an ideal bacterial breeding ground.

Run warm water through the Fleshlight after use, and use a cloth and your fingers to do the initial clean. After this, use some specially designed adult toy cleaner and sanitiser to leave your Fleshlight ready for it’s next adventure.

Fleshlight Stamina Training Units

These adult toys are apparently (!) designed to help guys last longer in bed. When I first heard this, I imagined a device that somehow sensed when ejaculation was going to occur and projected an imagine of Roseanne Barr naked onto the nearest wall… but sadly, this isn’t the case!

The base idea of the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit is to simulate the feeling of a real lady’s love tunnel as closely as possible, so that you are eventually desensitised to the experience.

Does it work? Customers certainly say so! Some of the most enthusiastic adult toy reviews you’ll ever read have been written about the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit. For example:

“I did not expect much but was surprised big time. The Stamina Training Unit does indeed feel good. Actually it did feel too good for me. I came just entering the thing. I was both shocked and amazed.”

“This thing is the most awesome masturbator in the world, I say its as good or better than a real pussy! By working slowly with it (training) it does help holding out longer… This thing is up there with the lightbulb as far as incredible inventions!”

“And it does seem to work. I’m able to recognize the signs of impending orgasm much better, and I’m able to last a few cycles more already. Exciting news, and something that did not go unnoticed by her!”

Vibrators Are Sex Tools For Women

Vibrators were found in Pompeii after an earthquake buried alive the vibrant city. The earthquake occurred in 79 AD but these sex toys have probably been in use for much longer than two thousand years. This illustrates how women need the assistance of something other than a male penis to achieve sexual satisfaction.

Sex toys for women were not always electronic but were designed to be vibrated manually within the body. It is estimated that only a third of women achieve organism in the same quick way that men do. Perhaps this is why sex toys have been discretely used for so many centuries in civilized societies.

In the Victoria era vibrators enjoyed a respectable status. They were used by doctors to treat hysteria. Anorexia Nervosa may have been known as ‘consumption’ then but masturbation has been recommended for that condition too. Victorian doctors reportedly grew weary of the time and effort required to bring about the condition now known as orgasm and welcomed the invention of an electronic vibrator which reduced the amount of time and effort required.

In 1960 a trial in the British High Court found that the novel, ‘Lady Chatterley’s Lover’ was not obscene. It had literary merit despite the fact that it was liberally laced with taboo words. This decision unleashed a sexual revolution in countries like sex toys Canada, America and Britain. The personal vibrator enjoyed a new lease on life, in the light of female acceptance of sexual pleasure as a legitimate need.

Apparently many electronic sex tools get on with the job more effectively than men do. The only baggage that they bring with them is some soft packaging and they can keep going for much longer than a man can. With the advent of the sexual revolution many new models have made their appearance and the picky woman can make her selection without fear of rejection or infidelity. She may choose from a wide range of colours, textures and sizes.

The rabbit family of vibrators have appendages that are designed to excite the vagina and clitoris simultaneously. They can keep going with more or less intensity until the ecstasy becomes unbearable. Newer versions can add a thrusting motion to what is already a fulsome sensation.

Some women like to have a sense of continual satisfaction as they wear an egg or bullet shaped dildo that vibrates mildly giving an ongoing sensation of pleasure. These may be slipped into handbags, or even disguised as a tube of lipstick.

Most modern vibrators are capable of high, low or medium speeds and levels will be capable of at least three levels of intensity. The g-spot vibrator will be curved in order to touch that tender spot just inside the vagina. It may be fashioned out of soft material and be coated with jelly or silicone.

The Top 10 Discreet Sex Toy Essentials For Your Summer Holiday

The summer has come around again so you are probably looking forward to a much earned rest on your summer holiday. Wherever it is you have planned to go to and for however long the duration of your stay, don’t forget to take your favourite adult toy with you. If your favourite dildos or vibrators are fairly sizable you may not think they are practical to take with you due to lack of room in your luggage. If you are going on a family holiday, you may also be concerned that the children may discover them and start asking awkward questions. Sinful Sensations have come up with a list of sex toy essentials, condoms and sexual lubricants for couples that are small enough to go unnoticed and quiet enough not to be heard. The top ten essentials are as follows:

1. Basix His and Hers G-Spot Tickler The slim-line G-Spot Tickler jelly dildo is curved so that it can find either his or her g-spot with expert ease. Its flat base makes it easy to hold onto during penetration.

2. RingO Super-Stretchy Gel Erection Cock Ring Designed to fit men of all sizes because of its stretchy gel consistency, this silicone penis ring is a simple way to produce fuller, firmer erections and help prevent premature ejaculation.

3. Lipvibe Cunningly disguised as a lipstick, this small vibrator can be carried around in your handbag so will not even take up any room in your suitcase! It may only be 3 inches long but its powerful motor still delivers reassuringly powerful vibrations.

4. Cupid’s Two Finger Tingler At only 1.75 inches long, you may not think this vibe delivers much in the way of power but you would be wrong! Place this quiet vibe between two fingers to stimulate during intercourse or during foreplay.

5. Mini Mates Jive The completely waterproof Mini Mates Jive is activated at the push of a button. Choose from any of its five different stimulating speeds. Remove the bullet from its silicone sleeve to use separately for twice the fun.

6. Anal Finger Stimulator Butt Plug For anal stimulation, this 2.5 inch long soft silicone butt plug with a finger hole is ideal for anal play and will definitely take up the minimum of room when you are packing.

7. Bijoux Good Vibrations Bullet The Good Vibrations Bullet generates buzz after buzz at the touch of a button and comes in a sweetie style bag – what could be more discreet?

8. BongO Vibrating Cock Ring with Pleasure Ball This stretchy cock ring provides both partners with stimulations from the vibrations, helps him to maintain a stronger and longer lasting erection and imparts her with clitoral stimulation.

9. ID Pleasure Lubricant 57ml Travel Tube Available in an ultra convenient travel tube, this latex compatible lube heightens sensations to the erogenous zones for both men and women. Men should benefit from a firmer, thicker and more long-lasting erection while women should experience more sensitised genitalia.

10. Skins Condoms Assorted 12 Pack Condoms are perhaps one of the most important things to remember to take with you on your holiday. This pack consists of four Natural, four Dots and Ribs and four Ultra Thin so you can swap and change as the mood takes you.

To view the complete selection of adult toys, condoms and lubricants available from Sinful Sensations visit the Sexy Summer Ideas.

Gay Male Sex Toys

Regardless of whether you are new or experienced in the use of male gay sex toys, there are numerous adult products available specifically targeted at the homosexual male in today’s marketplace. Some male sex toys such as the cock ring, even though this is by no means an adult toy exclusive to the gay male market, has been around since as far back as 1200 when it was first used by the Jin and Song dynasties by the Chinese, whereas the Fleshjack brand of Fleshlight male masturbators was launched specifically for gay men in 2007.

Gay Sex Toys for the Inexperienced Male

Products tailored more towards the beginner in homosexual male adult toys include items such as male sex toy starter kits. These kits are a relatively inexpensive way of trying out a whole host of male-specific products and consist of adult sex toys such as penis pumps, butt plugs and cock rings. A butt plug, also known as an anal plug, is also a firm favourite within the gay male community as it stimulates the anal passage. Anal beads also fall into this category. The majority of anal bead strings feature beads that graduate in size the further you go up the string meaning that the user can insert as many beads as they feel comfortable with. Many also come with a hand grip for easy release. Butt plugs are available in a variety of lengths and girths depending upon what level you are at. Some anal plugs are available as anal training kits and usually comprise of three different sizes of butt plugs. A cock ring is commonly employed by men of all sexual orientations to enhance and prolong the quality of an erection by restricting the blood flow to the penis.

Traditional Sex Toys for Gay Men

Sex pumps temporarily help to enhance the length, girth and hardness of the manhood by creating a vacuum in the cylinder which causes extra blood to rush to the penis. Male sex dolls feature vibrating and non-vibrating erect cocks, deep anuses and inviting mouths for endless possibilities. Dildos with balls and realistic vein and penis head detailing also are also popular. For the more experienced gay male, anal vibrators and vibrating butt plugs provide variable speed manipulation for the anal passageway. Anal plugs with ridges either part of or all the way along the length of the shaft also provide supplementary anal stimulation. Vibrating cock rings facilitate a similar reaction but for the penis. A pleasure wand is a double ended device that massages the scrotum and balls with one end whilst the other end sends stimulating vibrations to the anus/prostate. Male g-spot stimulators pivot to massage the g-spot deep inside the anus generating an incredibly intense orgasm.

Male Masturbators

Male Masturbators are another popular male sex toy for all male sexual orientations although male masturbators do not just come in the form of false vaginas and masturbation sleeves. In today’s marketplace several male masturbators cater specifically for gay men. They include vibrating anuses and tubes that have openings in them in the form of an anus. The most popular of the gay male masturbators available are the range of Fleshjacks. A member of the Fleshlight family (a new kind of masturbation tube), Fleshjacks not only feature the characteristic real-skin feeling within the tubes but the openings come in the form of butts and anuses while some of their inner sleeves replicate the insides of an anal passageway making it the most realistic penetrative feeling from a male masturbator.

The most important thing to consider whether new or experienced in the use of gay male sex toys is that the anus does not produce any natural lubrication so it is imperative that an anal lubricant is used to make penetration a much more pleasant and easier experience.